George Osborne was accused of having AS because of his ability to retain random facts at the expense of seeing the bigger picture, was the suggestion — and he swiftly retorted that the journalist who said this must be confusing him with Gordon Brown, a man of limited social skills.
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During the last US presidential election, both candidates, Barack Obama and Mitt Romney, had the term thrown at them when they made awkward gaffes. Many cases, according to the NAS, never receive a formal diagnosis — largely because it can be hard to know where maleness ends and AS begins. So much credence has been given to his point of view that it now has its own official name: the Extreme Male Brain EMB theory of autism. So should the partners of AS sufferers wring their hands in despair?
Quite the opposite. I accept that now, so I subtly let him know what I want him to do, whether it be helping around the house or trying to tune in to a conversation, and most of the time he then does it. And while my. It comes as no surprise to me that the NAS now receives more calls to its helpline from wives worrying about their husbands than from parents about their children, as was.
Online forums such as Mumsnet are bursting with threads from exasperated wives lamenting that their DH darling husband stays up all night reading programming books, or when he is stressed, says one disgruntled spouse, lying in bed eating pretzels and it has to be a particular kind of pretzel in silence. Sarah, inspired by their journey together, has written the bestselling Asperger Syndrome: A Love Story and two other books on the topic, and also set up a practice counselling couples and individuals dealing with AS.
In other words, women are just far better at pretending to be normal. Take Boyle.
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But romantic unions may fare better, with the right partner — a caring man may relish being with a detail-oriented, highly practical but slightly childlike woman; it can appeal to his instinct to protect. She also finds the sensory side of things difficult. She also urges him to say when he needs something he is not getting from her.
So far, it is working. On the bright side, AS women adjust quite easily to motherhood — as babies and small children thrive on a strict routine, and so do Aspies! The clinical detachment with which an AS man may survey his options online, instead of having to engage in verbal banter and throw out body language cues in a social environment translation: flirt, get drunk and snog , has opened up a whole world of new relationship possibilities for these types of men. But Toby Young, who has chronicled the cringe-making faux pas he made pursuing his now wife these include asking her mother at what age Caroline had first become sexually active , has proved that dating websites are not the only way for men with AS traits to get themselves married.
Many have jobs in reassuringly stable sectors, such as IT and engineering. But there is a downside. I have somewhat worked around my motor issues, but with the social situations in life and everything of that sort I still struggle with. How about somthing practical - like how to actually get a professional level job one that pays more annually than the total cost of my useless BA that keeps capitalizing at 8.
I don't know if I am noticing this because there seems to be so many symptoms or because they truly portray him as person with a mental condition. Either way I wonder what effect would making light of such a character have on those who watch. Bakari: The official position of the writers is that Sheldon doesn't have Asperger's - he's just "Sheldony. I don't know if you caught my post on the subject:. By the way, Asperger's is not a mental condition, rather a neurological one. Our neurological systems are wired differently.
A gifted child could easily be mistaken for a child with asperger's. Gifted children often don't socialize well with kids their own age, because they often don't have much in common. My husband has Asperger's, so I was concerned that my son would as well. But, although he doesn't socialize that well with kids his own age, it's clear that he doesn't have Asperger's, because he does communicate and socialize appropriately with older kids and adults. He just doesn't have much in common with other 4 year olds. Whether a child is gifted or Asperger's or both, I think it can only help to find a peer group that your child fits into.
I'm working on getting mine into a Gifted Magnet school. I have been raising a stepson with aspergers for the past 11 years. I also have a gifted son. They are both 16 years old, one month apart. My gifted son has plenty of friends his own age, some a couple years older. My stepson also has friends his own age, but there is no question of him being an aspie.
I would keep my eyes open. It's been a long road with my stepson, the earlier you step in with help the better. A child can be gifted, and have Asperger's Many kids with Asperger's find that they can socialize with older people and adults because, being more mature, older people are more likely to meet them where they are. I, too, socialized a bit with older kids, and adults I seemed to spark a maternal or paternal instinct in older kids. Asperger's means that a kids' social abilities are out of sync for their age They might just do it awkwardly, or learn to do it more slowly.
Kids who like to hang around people who are older or younger are more prepared for the real world. The more of a high-end job you take, the more you're going to encounter people who are either a lot older or a lot younger. The place where you're least likely to encounter that is at a place like McDonald's, hardly a good permanent job for someone very intelligent.
Going out of one's way to stick kids with their "peer" group all the time is a pretty modern invention. Even schoolhouses used to cram kindergartners and high schoolers in the same room. It's not a handicap to like people who aren't supposed to be like you and it's not a handicap not to be that interested in people who have nothing intellectual to offer you and to whom you have no care or authority to offer. I'm sick of the way this culture pathologizes everything. It won't kill most people if you leave them alone and let them be the way God made them.
Some people do understand how humanity works and don't wish to be harassed because of interests that weren't even pathologized back in the day.
Some people aren't confused about existence the way you may think; they just confuse YOU. I work occasionally with a fellow who has aspergers I'm in engineering and he's great! He's found that when he behaves like "Commander Data" on Star Trek, he can handle stuff better -- because it seems to him that he has to learn social stuff the same way a computerized mind would.
I deeply appreciate his ability to grasp complex concepts quickly, particularly mathematical ones, but as I've come to understand him as a person, I've found that he has a wonderful quirky sense of humor as well that often isn't grasped by people. I have 2 friends - a father 65 yrs old and his son 31 yrs old.
The father was Dx'd with Schizophrenia many decades ago - a common mistake back then - and he clings to this determination. I do not know whether his son knows about Asperger's. My question is, is it advisable for me to ask either of them whether they are aware of Asperger's?
I can not afford to upset them, but I think especially the father would benefit from understanding and accepting his challenges in this new to him light. This is one of those things that people want to think they have or their children have to make themselves feel better about themselves.
This is supposed to be a disability that affects about 1 in people. How the hell is it possible that now it seems that it is more like 1 out of For those of you whom think you have it because you are not good with people or dont do well with sports or act out stupidly, let me help you There is nothing wrong with you that you cannot fix if you put forth some effort.
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If you really had this disability you would not know you really had it. And if you are a parent that thinks their kid has it, read up on it and you will learn that half of the problem comes from parenting. This may hurt to hear, but it is the truth. I know this all because I was told I had this when I was younger so I made an effort and made myself "better" with the help of my parents.
Noone gave excuses or reasons why I should get away with bad behavior. Truth is I cannot spell and at times I am tough to get along with, however all the rest was just shrinks overdiagnosing me. For the most part I agree with you. I don't know whether this "Asperger's" thing is real or not, but if it is, then it's a lot rarer than it's hyped to be.
What is Asperger syndrome?
If you want to know part of the reason why younger people are the way they are, then look at their parents. Some people are also naturally stupid.
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This happens and shouldn't be pathologized. Most of the traits listed as so-called symptoms are harmless and serve to help people get ahead. You don't want your kid to end up like Bill Gates, do you?
Get help now! I could go on, but I will mention that I don't have much sympathy for people who make insulting or crude comments and then don't realize what they did wrong except maybe for young kids. I agree that generally the label is used as an excuse or used to enforce conformity. Bill Gates has never been diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome, and although he appears to have some of the "geek" traits monotone voice, computer savvy, laser-like focus common to people with Asperger Syndrome, he does not have AS.